Posted: March 8th, 2016

have a rule or expectation about dating, such as when you should date and the kind of person you should date?

7) have a rule or expectation about dating, such as when you should date and the kind of person you should date? Rate it on a scale of 1 to 3 where 1= No Rule or Expectation, 2= Implicit/Unspoken Rule or Expectation, 3= Explicit Rule or Expectation. If the interviewee selects #1 and unequivocally states that his or her mother or father does not have a rule, ask: why; why do you think your mother or father does not have a rule? If the interviewee selects #2 0r #3 ask: Describe the rule or expectation? Then ask: How does your mother enforce this rule? Can you give an example? {Repeat this question for the father.}
8) have a rule or expect that you follow a certain religion? Rate it on a scale of 1 to 3 where 1= No Rule or Expectation, 2= Implicit/Unspoken Rule or Expectation, 3= Explicit Rule or Expectation. If the interviewee selects #1 and unequivocally states that his or her mother or father does not have a rule, ask: why; why do you think your mother or father does not have a rule? If the interviewee selects #2 0r #3 ask: Describe the rule or expectation? Then ask: How does your mother enforce this rule? Can you give an example? {Repeat this question for the father.}
9) have a rule or expectation about when you should get married or whom you should marry (e.g., marry someone from the same culture or religious group) that you follow a certain religion? Rate it on a scale of 1 to 3 where 1= No Rule or Expectation, 2= Implicit/Unspoken Rule or Expectation, 3= Explicit Rule or Expectation. If the interviewee selects #1 and unequivocally states that his or her mother or father does not have a rule, ask: why; why do you think your mother or father does not have a rule? If the interviewee selects #2 0r #3 ask: Describe the rule or expectation? Then ask: How does your mother enforce this rule? Can you give an example? {Repeat this question for the father.}
10) have a rule or expectation about you lying to her? Rate it on a scale of 1 to 3 where 1= No Rule or Expectation, 2= Implicit/Unspoken Rule or Expectation, 3= Explicit Rule or Expectation. If the interviewee selects #1 and unequivocally states that his or her mother or father does not have a rule, ask: why; why do you think your mother or father does not have a rule? If the interviewee selects #2 0r #3 ask: Describe the rule or expectation? Then ask: How does your mother enforce this rule? Can you give an example? {Repeat this question for the father.}
11) have a rule or expectation about you doing chores? Rate it on a scale of 1 to 3 where 1= No Rule or Expectation, 2= Implicit/Unspoken Rule or Expectation, 3= Explicit Rule or Expectation. If the interviewee selects #1 and unequivocally states that his or her mother or father does not have a rule, ask: why; why do you think your mother or father does not have a rule? If the interviewee selects #2 0r #3 ask: Describe the rule or expectation? Then ask: How does your mother enforce this rule? Can you give an example? {Repeat this question for the father.}